Saturday, November 20, 2010

Should I take him back?

So he cheated on me a month ago in a game of truth or dare and kissed another girl and I just found out 2 days ago from a girl that was just a witness of the game. I also found out that him and this same girl he kissed also kissed after the game was over and she sat on his lap and they were acting like they were going out. He saying they never went to the pool but to the park to smoke a joint but the girl that told me about the kiss said one of her friends saw him and her leavin and he had a towel and swim trunks and her friend asked if they were going swimming and they both said yes. Hes dening all of this. I also suspected he was flirting with another girl and I asked him about it and he said no but in the end it turns out he did. So I broke up with him the minute I got out of class now he saying im sorry I love you please dont leave i only want u it will never happen again i relaize how much i love u and how much i hurt u i feel bad and i promise ill change. WHAT WOULD U DO IF YOU WERE IN MY SHOES?Should I take him back?
i personally wouldn't take this guy back. i don't care how much he begged me, my parents always told me if they do it once, they will do it again. for example, a guy hits you as a %26quot;joke%26quot; that will turn out to be physical abuse later in life.

anyways, as i said, i personally wouldn't take this guy back, there are more mature guys out there who would be a much better boyfriend who wouldn't even think of cheating on you in the first place.

just my opinion, but i hope you take it into consideration.



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:)Should I take him back?
No, he's not worth it. Period. Move on.Should I take him back?
Love is something that is built over a long time and trust is one of its key components. He is saying he loves you, but it would seem that his actions say otherwise. Also, if he denies it, what is he apologizing for? Unless he lied earlier about him not doing those things.



If I were married to this person and we had children together, I might consider counseling, etc. But with a relationship that is not nearly that far along, I'd take this as a early warning of things to come and learn it now before it gets worse.Should I take him back?
dump his loser. stupid. i mean its stupid what he didShould I take him back?
if i was in your shoes i would give him another chance... why? just to see if he was telling the truth about wanting to be wit me.Should I take him back?
well if I were in ur shoes id take him back but thats me be u not me . if u want to take him back do so but if u dont than dont